How NOT to get out of a cycle

1. Complain about your situation constantly. Whine and moan. Its not fair that nothing ever goes the way you want it so what better way to make those around you hate you than to constantly remind them of how crappy your life is.
2. Keep doing the same things, the same way over and over again. You got a routine of the way you do things?? Keep at it! I mean you want the same results you have been getting your whole life dont you? You are doing a good job so far, so why stop now?
3. Keep denying reality. I mean, the way you see it in your head is way better that it is in real life, ain’t it?
4. Do you ever take advice from people which in the end turns out to be bad advice and you constantly find yourself taking advice from the same people?Keep at it.
5. You know the way you are always waiting for the next time you are getting paid? There’s actually nothing wrong with the way you are spending your money. After all, cutting down on unnecessary expences, budgeting and saving just never work with you.
6. Ever find yourself in ‘waiting mode’. Waiting for that something to happen that will eventually make you life worth living?And then, and only then will you be truly happy? Yeah, you know what I’m talking about. You certainly dont have to get off your lazy behind and do something about it. It will happen when it’s supposed to happen right?
7. Keep giving up on everything that is hard. Maybe it wasn’t just meant for you. I mean, it is hard. If every time you start something and at some point it requires you to put in a little more effort, time or think a little harder, you give up on it, then you my friend, are on the right track!
8. You dont need to look for a better job if you hate the one you have now.You can blame that on the world economy.It is not that easy getting a job right now. In fact people are getting laid off so…
9. And talking about blame, I think blaming everyone and everything around you for ALL the things that aren’t going right in your life is the way to go.That way you dont have to take responsibility for your OWN life.
10. Self pity. Enough said.

REadY tO liVe nOW

I dont have everything I’ve always wanted
But..
I’m done with High School,
Even College,
I have moved out of the parents house,
Have my own furniture,
HAVE lost weight…
Have a job,
manage my own finances(mostly),

And yet I’m still waiting for my life to start…

waiting
For me to get a “better job”,
For that guy to come and sweep me off my feet,
For my (imaginary) career in —— to take off,
For me to travel to that city I have always wanted to go to,
To learn how to play that instrument or game,
To make those new friends,
For all my dreams to come true!
For me to be happy.

but now…

maybe I will
maybe I should stop
waiting

Coz now

I’m ready to start.